A Pattern of Words

One photograph a day to make the world spin a little slower.

  • Nine has brought depth and maturity and so much growth. His Atrium classes have expanded into extra First Communion classes and I’m surprised that he never complains about them, or resents doing the (writing intensive) homework. It’s neat seeing the depth of his understanding as he prepares for his First Reconciliation. He often locks himself into his room to build massive Lego creations, using a wide variety of resource materials to make it as realistic as possible. I’m surprised sometimes how little he cares about the creations afterwards: the joy comes from the building. We still struggle through school sometimes – especially when his anxiety gets the better of him. The difference this year, however, is that I can tell he’s trying more and we’re both attempting to get through work with a whole lot more patience and less frustration. He picks up on when I need extra help or am really tired and tries his best to herd his siblings into doing what needs to be done. He insists he despises math, but then sometimes bursts out with a delighted “this is so fun!” when something clicks and he realizes the ways that long division or Roman numerals are like puzzles or a game. He’s entering that stage of trying to get away with wearing the exact same outfit day after day – usually the baggiest shirt in his drawer combined with the most ridiculous pants. The newest fascination is all things Greek as we finish up the first Percy Jackson book and he has taken it upon himself to relisten to last year’s history curriculum that includes details about Greek and Roman life. Cephalopods still rein supreme, but slowly a wider variety of interests have accumulated.

  • She eats endlessly. All day long. Breakfast, post breakfast, snack, pre lunch, lunch…I can’t keep up.

  • That weather where one person is still wearing long sleeves and pants and the other is wearing shorts and a tshirt. I’ll let you guess which person was more on point with their clothing choice.

  • Always gathering big sticks, always leaving them piled by my front door.

  • Easter feels incredibly late. Maybe it’s due to how warm February and March were, with sunshine and bees buzzing and tank tops pulled out. Or possibly it’s because this, being the third year of gardening, means my plants are all blossoming faster and thicker. Or maybe I’m just very, very ready for Lent to be over. I never actually pulled out any of my spring decor (primarily faux, spring blossoms) and by the time Easter hits they’ll feel like old news. I’m kind of okay with that and with keeping it simple this year. My house feels overwhelmingly full right now and I’m excited to toss all my real plants on the porch the second we’re in the clear of frost warnings, get a certain group of baby chicks into an outside coop, and throw all the windows open once the pollen has finished torturing us.

  • Blossom blizzard in March. Every time the wind gusts blew, thousands of pedals spun through the air. Within minutes of this photo, the storm broke and rain came pelting down.

  • The girls know how to “double flip” on the climbing dome from their time spent in gymnastics and the boys are flabbergasted and jealous and can’t figure out how they do it without hurting their stomachs. It’s hilarious.

  • Rocking out to classic rock in the early morning.

  • There’s an unspoken competition among the kids to see who can climb the highest. Every time friends pop over, everyone makes a run for the ol’ Bradford Pear (yes, I know how gross these trees are and yes, it’s definitely going to be chopped down one day) and so far L has been winning. But E deeeefinitely gave him a run for his money!

  • When Tetis has evening dental association meetings, the kids eat charcuterie for dinner and get an early movie night.